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Saturday 29 September 2018

Wedding Cake Trends 2018: Black and Gold Cakes


Now continuing on my Trend Report on Wedding Cake Trends for 2018, the next is a combination of colours that perhaps are not traditional Wedding Colours.

Black is the colour for mourning and as such avoided at weddings but the new mordern interpretation of wedding cakes that use black, gold and natural florals has many a bride choosing to opt for this very chic and glamorous look!

Here are some beautiful examples of BLACK & GOLD.













The stand out feature of these black beauties is their understated play at texture. Combining architectural pieces, big brush strokes of liquid gold and a mix of 2d and 3d florals truly makes these Artistic pieces memorable.

So are you a bride who considers herself unique and likes to stand out from the crowd for her sartorial choices then this is the trend for you!

OOTD- Finding Great Jeans Despite Not Having Skinny Genes!

 When I was younger I immensely despised my immense hips!

My "Pereira Hips" as they're fondly refered to since they're a genetic legacy from my dad's family.

All my paternal aunt's have them and then I got them and have unwittingly passed on the torch of this dubious honour to my poor older daughter. Haha

In my teenage years, I used to think that wearing baggy jeans and loose trousers was the way to go. That it would hide my most displeasing ( at least to me) physical feature. But now in hindsight I think I just made it worse!

Now in my mid thirties I wish I had the hips of my youth because after two children and the weight gain, my hips are now of "can apply for their own pincode" proportions.. there's no escaping from them!

But inversely I also find as I grow older I get more forgiving of my body, more accepting and more grateful. These hips accommodated my babies, these hips carried my toddlers for hours as I went about my work, these hips still sway with feminine charm and these hips while they're far from perfect are what make me, ME.



One thing that hasn't changed over the years though, is the hunt for well fitting jeans. 

A task that is more daunting for me because while my hips and thighs are generously made on one hand, my ankles and calves on the other are absurdly dainty. 

 But after searching for a while I've found some brands, that are a boon to plus size girls. 

My top favourites are from DOROTHY PERKINS ( available on jabong.com) , GIA- Curves and SASSY SODA ( Both available at Westside ). They come in sizes up to 4xl.

The fit on these three brands is perfect for larger hipped or bigger bottomed girls. 



I'm wearing my jeans from GIA here along with a t-shirt that I picked up from street shopping abroad.

 The gentle U-Curve on the slightly flared Tee is always flattering for wider hips. Accessorized with two toned platform sandals ( doing a post for great shoe resources soon!) And my oversized black tote!

My quick easy tip for instantly feeling glam and dressy? Paint your toe nails red! 

Always perks me up!
Sunday 16 September 2018

2018 Summer Trip to Nepal- PART 1 : The Absolute Top Highlights!



Nepal!! What was a spur of the moment decision turned out to be one of the most surprisingly fun trips Felix, my husband and I have taken. This Summer of 2018, For the first time ever we decided to go without the kids! We left with great trepidation and carefully contained excitement.

But Nepal went way beyond our ( I must admit initially low) expectations and was a Cornucopia of beautiful green mountains, placid lake, dusty busy city, 8 hour luxury bus rides, calming Temples and Stupas,fun adventure, loving friendly re-unions and aaamazing food!


Felix and I were completely de-stressed and spent some very precious quality time together.We walked for miles, laughed like maniacs, ate with gusto and slept so well we'd be up by 5 am everyday!In fact, I'm pleased to share that we didn't have a single argument, not even a minor disagreement in all the days we were there. Such was the Peaceful Effect of Nepal!:)

Since there were so many things that made this trip memorable for us,condensing everything into one post just wouldn't do it justice, so I'm going to be breaking it down into parts. 
So here goes!

PART 1-  The Absolute Top Highlights. These are experiences that were a first for me and unforgettable

Nap, Shower and Go at Delhi Airport
So Felix, my hubby and I looked up Flights to Nepal via Delhi online one night and thought they weren't too bad at all and we booked in a split second decision. We flew IndiGo all the way and it was an ok flight experience.
But in our excited haste we foolishly overlooked that we booked our flights to Nepal such that we had a FIFTEEN HOUR Stop over at Delhi airport between flights!! We realised it too late.
And for some reason that I can't recall right now, ( mostly we were in a bold and jaunty mood thinking we would be kid and stress free), we decided we'd wait it out at the Airport...Overnight...for 15 hours...yeah.
Like we kept asking each other " HOW HARD COULD IT BE?"
Well, turns out kids or no kids we learned that we're now old farts too used to our middle aged comforts.. haha
We landed in Delhi at 8 pm and then took a transfer to the International "lounge" (The place barely deserving to be called that).It was about 9 ish. Our flight was at 11 next morning!
By 2 am, after endless walks, looking at the same little shops, sitting on hard horrible chairs, having death races for the meagre loungers,we realized that we'd had enough!!!
Thank Goodness for PLAZA PREMIUM LOUNGE!
They're a "Nap, Shower and Go" place inside the Delhi Airport. You pay by the hour for a tiny Luxury Room with all the amenities of a starred hotel.
We paid 5000/- for 6 hours ( light refreshments included) and i don't regret it one bit!

It was a first for me and a very nice experience too!
After a superb nap, shower and coffee in bed we were popping to fly the next morning!

at 2:30 am...

light refereshments

fresh to fly!

Multiple Cremations at Pashupatinath Temple in Kathmandu

I have never seen a Hindu Cremation. Naturally. But, In Nepal I was witness to Three that were happening simultaneously at the famous and very revered Pashupatinath Temple that is located along the Banks of the Bagmati River!

This sprawling Hindu Temple Complex houses many Temples and Ashrams and is part of the UNESCO World Heritage Sites List. The twelve Jyotirlinga (in India) are the body and the Jyotirlinga at Pashupatinath in Kathmandu (Nepal) is the head over this body.

However, besides its importance as site of pilgrimage what draws crowds of people(Both locals and Foreigners) to this unique temple is its open cremations.

Along the ghats there are many plateaus built for the open air cremations that take place on a daily basis. I learn that even in death there are disparities among humans. For there are designated places for the cremations, one for the royal family, another for affluent and well connected families and then several others for the regular people. The cremation places for the common folk are located on the other side of the bridge, out of sight from the places that are used by the royals and the rich.

As much as I wanted to experience this,I was also quite apprehensive.I didn't want to witness anything grisly or be disrespectful to the families of the deceased. But it was nothing like that, like everything else in Nepal, the serenity took over. There was calm and dignity and acceptance of the fate that ultimately awaits us all. 

And when it rained while we were there, it felt fitting.




365 Steps to Illumination: The Monkey Temple of Kathmandu

 On the little hillock of Swaymbhunath in the northwest of the Kathmandu Valley, sits the Swayambhunath Temple overlooking most parts of the valley. Its popularly also known as the "Monkey Temple" and we saw why..There were several monkeys frolicking everywhere! The glory of Kathmandu Valley is said to have started from this point. 

For the Buddhist Newars, in whose mythological history and origin myth as well as day-to-day religious practice Swayambhunath occupies a central position, it is probably the most sacred among Buddhist pilgrimage sites. For Tibetans and followers of Tibetan Buddhism, it is second only to Boudha

The complex consists of a stupa, a variety of shrines and temples, a Tibetan monastery and a museum and library are more recent additions. 

This is a good place to  experience the communal harmony in Nepal and take in the amazing panoramic views of pretty much the whole city.

But for me, Swaymbhunath will always be memorable for my climb up its exceedingly steep stone steps leading up to the shrine sitting atop the hill. 365 steps in all. Yes. And being as I am right now , probably at my worst, physically, this was quite the challenge!

 I breezed through the first 200 or so but as each step got steeper and higher, I pondered my prudence in not taking the straight road that leads right up ( Yes, there's an easier access but where's the fun in that right?). By the time I reached the top, huffing and puffing and legs trembling I felt like I had taken a bit of a pilgrimage myself, haha.

When I slowly walked around the Stupa, taking in deep breaths to calm my racing heart, that familiar tranquility that Nepal exudes came back..The sweat from my brow dried instantly in the cool, soothing breeze.The (also now familiar) words and melody of the Buddhist chant " Om Mani Padme Hum" fell on my ears, I put my hands to the spinning Prayer Wheels ,thanked God for this moment and continued around the Stupa in reverence on my shaky knees.
at the start: doesn't look that bad!

Finally: What the hell was I thinking?!!

Prayer Wheels...


Rowing On Fewa Lake
From Kathmandu we drove down to touristy Pokhara for a couple of days. Pokhara Valley is a great place for a variety of adventure activities like hiking, trekking, paragliding etc. 
On the first day there we went out on a rented row boat in the absolutely still Fewa Lake.

The lake is a major attraction to those who are drawn to water sports or families who simply love absorbing the beautiful scenery. The Annapurna Range and the Dhaulagiri Range loom in a distance and are mirrored on the calm surface of the lake.

 Away from the shore, the water is clean and deep and the dense forest along the south side of the lake is rich in wildlife. The lake also holds religious importance.The holyTaal Barahi temple is situated on an island in the lake.

The Barahi temple is dedicated to Goddess Durga, who protects the gods from demons. Durga takes in the form of a boar called Barahi to pierce her evil enemies with her pointed tusks.  Barahi is pictured with the face of a boar. On Saturdays, devotees make their way to the temple carrying animals for sacrifice.

So, we had the idea to row to the temple but unfortunately for us it was too late and we were told the temple was closed for visits. 

However that aside, the row boat experience was a memorable one for me. What I found out was that I absolutely SUCK at it. All I did was move the row boat in circles...They make it look so easy in movies!

Luckily Felix was a natural..or we'd still be there on the lake like a dog chasing its own tail! haha

Come on! Move!

sooo easy!

Beautiful Fewa Lake!

Paragliding in Pokhara
In Pokhara, I also ticked off a major experience from my bucket list. I flew in the sky like a bird!

Yes, I had the most amazing moment when we went Paragliding off the hills in Pokhara. Despite my many doubts and hesitations, I took the plunge (literally!) and it was an experience of a lifetime!

Team 5 Nepal Paragling, was the team of experienced pilots and instructors who made it happen and I can't praise them enough. These guys were friendly and extremely capable. They made sure my first paragliding experience was one I will always remember!

The churning of adrenaline in your belly as you race towards the edge of the cliff, that exact moment when you realise your feet are no longer on firm ground and everything is in slow motion except your racing heart and mind and the complete exhilaration when you just soar over open skies...I tell you it was beyond sensational!
My turn next...heart in my mouth!

Wohoo! On top of the World!

Recipe File: Kheema Biryani with Bonus Pakistani style Biryani Masala recipe!


The other day I pulled out packet of Frozen Minced meat aka Kheema to defrost it with the intention to make Meatball Curry and a quick Veggie Pulao for Lunch. But while I was chopping the onions for the same, I suddenly had the notion to make a Biryani...with the Kheema! I've never made anything like this before but I must say I was very pleased with my fickle mindedness this time! ha

Sharing my recipe for this tasty and spicy Kheema Biryani.

The Layers!
SPICY KHEEMA BIRYANI

Ingredients:
For Kheema
500 gms Minced Meat ( I used Beef, you can use Mutton if you prefer)
1 tsp Turmeric powder
1 tsp Chilli powder 
2 tsp Ginger-Garlic paste
1 heaped tbsp Biryani Masala*
Juice of 1 Lime
Salt to taste
Oil
1 tbsp Pure Ghee
2 large onions,chopped
2 large Tomatoes,chopped
2 Bay leaves
4 Black Cardamom
6 cloves
1 Cinnamon Stick 
1 tsp Turmeric powder
1 tsp Chilli powder 
2 tbsp Biryani Masala* ( you can use a ready masala from brands like Everest or use my special blend! Recipe at the bottom)
2 tsp Yoghurt

For Rice
800 gms uncooked Basmati Rice, washed and drained
8 cloves
2 Cinnamon Sticks 
1 Star Anise
Salt
1 tsp Pure Ghee

For Topping
2 Large onions, Sliced
Handful Raisins, washed and dried
Handful Almonds, chopped roughly
Oil

Assembly
Orange and yellow food coloring (or a few strands of Saffron diluted in a little milk)
Pure Ghee
Handful of Coriander and Mint leaves, chopped fine

Method:
Put the minced meat in a large bowl and adf the next 6 ingredients. Mix thoroughly and keep aside to marinate for 20-30 mins.

In the meantime, wash rice and drain. Prep vegetables and keep aside.

Next, fill a large pot with sufficient water and bring to a boil. Add the whole spices, salt and the rice to the boiling water. Give it one stir and add the ghee. Stir again. Boil till rice is almost cooked but not quite done. Drain water and let rice cool.





Now to cook the Kheema, heat oil in another pot and add the ghee. Add the whole spices and stir till fragrant. Add in the chopped onions and cook till transparent and put in the chopped tomatoes. Season with salt at this point and cook till veggies soften. Add in the powdered spices including Turmeric, chilli and Biryani Masala and cook it well till the oil separates. Put in the Kheema now and stir well. Add a little water and let it cook well till Kheema is almost dry and fully coated with spice mix. Spoon in the yoghurt and stir through. Cook for a few more minutes and keep aside.


For the topping, heat oil in a frying pan and add sliced onions.Fry onions till very golden brown and add then add in the washed raisins and chopped nuts. Fry til nuts and raisins are well toasted and the onions have turned a deep caramel brown. Keep aside.




Now for the assembly! Grease a large pot well with some pure ghee. Gently spread out a layer of the rice at the bottom. Drizzle with the food colour/ saffron and about a generous tsp of pure ghee. Top with an even layer of the cooked Kheema. Next repeat again with Rice just like the first layer. Keep layering with the top layer being Rice. I did two layers of meat and three of rice. 

On the topmost layer after drizzling with colour/ saffron milk and ghee , spread out the Topping mixture neatly over it. Sprinkle with chopped fresh coriander and mint.



Shut the pot with a close fitted lid and put over the stove to gently heat/ cook through. Your biryani is ready to serve.Enjoy!



And here's a recipe of Karachi Biryani Masala that you can use.

*KARACHI BIRYANI MASALA


Grind to a fine powder:
2 big sticks cinnamon
2 tbspn whole cummin
5 pcs star anise
15 pcs green cadamom
1 tbspn peppercorns
1/2 cloves
5 bay leaves
1/2 Nutmeg
1/2 Mace

Once ground to a fine powder add to this mix:

1 tspn turmeric powder
1 tbspn red chilli powder
4 tbspn coriander powder
15 pcs  whole cloves
15 peppercorns
10 pcs whole Green Cardamom
15 pcs dried Indian plums ( dry fruits sellers)
1 tspn salt

Mix everything thoroughly and store in an airtight container. Use as needed!

Friday 7 September 2018

Wedding Cake Trends 2018: Drip Cakes

Boho Chic Mexican Embroidery Inspired Wedding Cake by CAKED
At CAKED, our little venture, we offer a variety of services and products. Desserts,Celebrations cakes, Traditional Goan Snacks and more but my true passion lies in designing and creating Wedding Cakes!

I love to incorporate the personal touches unique to the Bride and Groom as well as capture the overall mood that they wish to create at their wedding reception. 

In 2018, Wedding Cakes have come a long way from fussy Royal Icing covered Rounds balancing on plastic Grecian looking pillars to now adopting a more sleeker, organic and gently gilded avataar.

There is abundant inspiration available online for those planning their Wedding this year but there are a few trends that really stand out according to me. I thought I'd do a series of Wedding Cake Inspirations and Trends for 2018!

First trend: Drip Cakes!













Drip cakes can be delightfully whimsical strewn with dainty Macarons and mini donuts or  deliciously rustic left with naked tiers and adorned with wild flowers and fruit. They can have Caramel , Chocolate or Gold drips. In some cases they're paired with other popular 2018 trends like Block Colours or Gold Foil.  

For a Bridal couple with Bohemian Aesthetics they're the ideal choice!